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    • Meows wrote:

      Qustinnus wrote:

      My best friend, on steam that is...Always frustrates out on me...But this time it was REALLY bad..She deleted me too,


      I've been heartbroken 3 times in a month. (1.girlfriend breaks up 2. I back out of a crush for a fellow bro (Hurt me the most) and 3. I lost my best friend)



      Oh god this wont stop :x
      I can actually relate to that, not everything in a month, but yeah, I know what they all feel like. Unfortunately the best thing I can say is to look past it all and just keep going :/ <3


      I went to get my haircut today, turned out to not be a part of my comfortable zone at all, I couldn't even tell them how I wanted to get my hair done.. I'm thinking, maybe I should try to talk to a random person on my way to school or something, just ask some simple question as "do you have a lighter" or something like that, and if it feels alright I'll just keep doing it until I feel comfortable talking to random persons. What do you guys think?
      You should do stuff like that, Yeah...Probably make a new IRL friend...Its not hard.. Spot a guy with a shirt like Br00tal and you got a friend. (Its calming when you know the person has same interest, less shame and stuff.)

      Anyways, I backed up for the guy because he was nice, So i'd rather make someone happy then make me happy..

    • Qustinnus wrote:

      Meows wrote:

      Qustinnus wrote:

      My best friend, on steam that is...Always frustrates out on me...But this time it was REALLY bad..She deleted me too,


      I've been heartbroken 3 times in a month. (1.girlfriend breaks up 2. I back out of a crush for a fellow bro (Hurt me the most) and 3. I lost my best friend)



      Oh god this wont stop :x
      I can actually relate to that, not everything in a month, but yeah, I know what they all feel like. Unfortunately the best thing I can say is to look past it all and just keep going :/ <3


      I went to get my haircut today, turned out to not be a part of my comfortable zone at all, I couldn't even tell them how I wanted to get my hair done.. I'm thinking, maybe I should try to talk to a random person on my way to school or something, just ask some simple question as "do you have a lighter" or something like that, and if it feels alright I'll just keep doing it until I feel comfortable talking to random persons. What do you guys think?
      You should do stuff like that, Yeah...Probably make a new IRL friend...Its not hard.. Spot a guy with a shirt like Br00tal and you got a friend. (Its calming when you know the person has same interest, less shame and stuff.)

      Anyways, I backed up for the guy because he was nice, So i'd rather make someone happy then make me happy..
      Haha will do ;)

      You're like me then, you'd rather make others feel good, and be happy rather than yourself?
      -brofist-

    • Meows wrote:

      Qustinnus wrote:

      Meows wrote:

      Qustinnus wrote:

      My best friend, on steam that is...Always frustrates out on me...But this time it was REALLY bad..She deleted me too,


      I've been heartbroken 3 times in a month. (1.girlfriend breaks up 2. I back out of a crush for a fellow bro (Hurt me the most) and 3. I lost my best friend)



      Oh god this wont stop :x
      I can actually relate to that, not everything in a month, but yeah, I know what they all feel like. Unfortunately the best thing I can say is to look past it all and just keep going :/ <3


      I went to get my haircut today, turned out to not be a part of my comfortable zone at all, I couldn't even tell them how I wanted to get my hair done.. I'm thinking, maybe I should try to talk to a random person on my way to school or something, just ask some simple question as "do you have a lighter" or something like that, and if it feels alright I'll just keep doing it until I feel comfortable talking to random persons. What do you guys think?
      You should do stuff like that, Yeah...Probably make a new IRL friend...Its not hard.. Spot a guy with a shirt like Br00tal and you got a friend. (Its calming when you know the person has same interest, less shame and stuff.)

      Anyways, I backed up for the guy because he was nice, So i'd rather make someone happy then make me happy..
      Haha will do ;)

      You're like me then, you'd rather make others feel good, and be happy rather than yourself?
      Yeah..Not like i want it, but i cant see people being hurt, I cant do something like that to a friend, I'm used to it anyway, No love and depression ;P

    • Qustinnus wrote:

      Anyways, I backed up for the guy because he was nice, So i'd rather make someone happy then make me happy..
      I'm the same way, too. If I see someone else acting uncomfortable, especially if I'm close to them, I will go out of my way to help the discomfort go away. When it comes to someone close, I don't even mind if it makes me uncomfortable in the process; just seeing someone else happy makes me happy.

      Meows wrote:

      I went to get my haircut today, turned out to not be a part of my comfortable zone at all, I couldn't even tell them how I wanted to get my hair done.. I'm thinking, maybe I should try to talk to a random person on my way to school or something, just ask some simple question as "do you have a lighter" or something like that, and if it feels alright I'll just keep doing it until I feel comfortable talking to random persons. What do you guys think?
      It's good that you're taking the initiative to be comfortable around others. I used to hate getting my hair cut for the same reason; and then the one cutting the hair also usually likes to talk on and on... But it's a positive step towards fighting off your worst anxieties. =) And yes, that seems like a good idea; just start with something casual like the lighter example, then move on to other topics. I'm sure it'll get easier as you go along. =)

    • Qustinnus wrote:

      Meows wrote:

      Qustinnus wrote:

      Meows wrote:

      Qustinnus wrote:

      My best friend, on steam that is...Always frustrates out on me...But this time it was REALLY bad..She deleted me too,


      I've been heartbroken 3 times in a month. (1.girlfriend breaks up 2. I back out of a crush for a fellow bro (Hurt me the most) and 3. I lost my best friend)



      Oh god this wont stop :x
      I can actually relate to that, not everything in a month, but yeah, I know what they all feel like. Unfortunately the best thing I can say is to look past it all and just keep going :/ <3


      I went to get my haircut today, turned out to not be a part of my comfortable zone at all, I couldn't even tell them how I wanted to get my hair done.. I'm thinking, maybe I should try to talk to a random person on my way to school or something, just ask some simple question as "do you have a lighter" or something like that, and if it feels alright I'll just keep doing it until I feel comfortable talking to random persons. What do you guys think?
      You should do stuff like that, Yeah...Probably make a new IRL friend...Its not hard.. Spot a guy with a shirt like Br00tal and you got a friend. (Its calming when you know the person has same interest, less shame and stuff.)

      Anyways, I backed up for the guy because he was nice, So i'd rather make someone happy then make me happy..
      Haha will do ;)

      You're like me then, you'd rather make others feel good, and be happy rather than yourself?
      Yeah..Not like i want it, but i cant see people being hurt, I cant do something like that to a friend, I'm used to it anyway, No love and depression ;P


      I used to be like this.But bullies made me change. but meh, I'm still like this but for chosen people only. I always say sorry whenever I did a little things that could hurt them.

    • I've been depressed for a long time, I've just managed to keep it under the surface so it didn't show.

      I was bullied for 7'ish years as a kid, every day, so that takes a toll.
      I also met a girl who I was together with for 2 years that broke up with me because she didn't want a relationship, only to jump into a new relationship a week later. WITH A GUY I INTRO-FUCKING-DUCED TO HER :C

    • I was bullied for 7 years, then i had enough and moved with my Mother to stockholm, but that did kinda make things worse.
      My parents are divorced so i have only met my dad three times the past 6months, me and my dad are really close so this is very hard for me.
      Also some girl IN MY NEW school are starting to bulling me. And i also have a really hard time making friends. The people in my school don't even know what twitter is so when i start to talk about skyrim and stuff like that they just think im weird.

      Im starting to miss my old friends alot and im even thinking about moving back.
      But i know i can't do that because i don't want to be bullied again.

    • 7 years? I was bullied for all my life.-.- Emotionally and some physically bullying. It started when I was 5, I think I was kinder that time. And it continues, until 1st year when I really want to kill those beyotch who bullied me. Good thing, they suck at school. 2nd year, all of them went to other school. But the douchebag who started the "gay" thingy which freakin' destroyed my reputation in school was still in the school until now,but yeah we got along. But still saying those things. I don't really mind now. Cuz karma is a bitch, just waiting for it.

    • White_Lama wrote:

      I've been depressed for a long time, I've just managed to keep it under the surface so it didn't show.



      I was bullied for 7'ish years as a kid, every day, so that takes a toll.

      I also met a girl who I was together with for 2 years that broke up with me because she didn't want a relationship, only to jump into a new relationship a week later. WITH A GUY I INTRO-FUCKING-DUCED TO HER :C

      I know what you mean; I tend to hold things in, too. Sometimes it upsets me more if someone can tell I'm upset, though I've been feeling that less and less recently. I feel a little venting, no matter what it is you have to do (as long as it's legal lol) is necessary, cause holding it in too much or for too long can make things worse...

      Also, that's ridiculously messed up. If that happened to me, I would be ticked beyond belief! =( Do you still keep in touch?

      Waari wrote:

      I was bullied for 7 years, then i had enough and moved with my Mother to stockholm, but that did kinda make things worse.

      My parents are divorced so i have only met my dad three times the past 6months, me and my dad are really close so this is very hard for me.

      Also some girl IN MY NEW school are starting to bulling me. And i also have a really hard time making friends. The people in my school don't even know what twitter is so when i start to talk about skyrim and stuff like that they just think im weird.



      Im starting to miss my old friends alot and im even thinking about moving back.

      But i know i can't do that because i don't want to be bullied again.
      I can relate with the parent issues; this year, I just started college, and my parents decided to move to be in Connecticut, which is a small state next to New York. I'm going to school there, so they thought they could support me a little better, since I'm originally from Colorado, which is way out west. But my mom hated it there, got in a huge fight with my dad, and moved back... They didn't speak to each other for several months, but my dad has finally moved back. I was convinced they were going to get a divorce...

      I'm also close with my dad, so I was upset when he moved 2,000 miles away. I think that if you prefer to spend time with your dad, you should choose to stay with him; at least you will get guaranteed family support that way. But I guess it's all a weighing of pros and cons, too.

      karlsanada10 wrote:

      7 years? I was bullied for all my life.-.- Emotionally and some physically bullying. It started when I was 5, I think I was kinder that time. And it continues, until 1st year when I really want to kill those beyotch who bullied me. Good thing, they suck at school. 2nd year, all of them went to other school. But the douchebag who started the "gay" thingy which freakin' destroyed my reputation in school was still in the school until now,but yeah we got along. But still saying those things. I don't really mind now. Cuz karma is a bitch, just waiting for it.
      I've only been physically bullied for a month at most, but I can relate with the emotional bullying. I think I've been emotionally bullied one way or the other for the majority of my life, and just this year I've been diagnosed with depression, though I think it started one or two years previous. Are you still having these problems? Things such as this can be reported to a school counselor, if your school has one.

    • Well, today is Self Injury Awareness Day, and my friend linked this video to me: youtube.com/watch?v=rl5HKMXHYwU

      It's a great, great video and, even though I've never felt like harming myself (at my lowest, I only wished to not exist but I wouldn't actually go and kill/hurt myself) it touched me. I have insecurity/paranoia issues, I tend to not believe that people actually care about me and I often think that people secretly dislike me. Lately, I've gotten a lot better, and it's helped to try to reassure myself that I don't have to be alone all the time and that I'm really loved. You all have someone who either loves or will love you, most definitely, just hold out on that. And even if it doesn't seem like you will, you'll find someone who you yourself can love and that should be worth living for.

      Bang bang you're dead!

    • Myst wrote:

      I know what you mean; I tend to hold things in, too. Sometimes it upsets me more if someone can tell I'm upset, though I've been feeling that less and less recently. I feel a little venting, no matter what it is you have to do (as long as it's legal lol) is necessary, cause holding it in too much or for too long can make things worse...

      Also, that's ridiculously messed up. If that happened to me, I would be ticked beyond belief! =( Do you still keep in touch?


      Yeah, I can't break up the contact with her due to the fact that without me she'd be dead by now and I helped her through the roughest times of her life. I'm just glad to say that she isn't together with that other guy anymore, so it's easier to keep friends with her now.

    • White_Lama wrote:

      Yeah, I can't break up the contact with her due to the fact that without me she'd be dead by now and I helped her through the roughest times of her life. I'm just glad to say that she isn't together with that other guy anymore, so it's easier to keep friends with her now.


      Ah, I understand. I had a friend who I helped through a lot of her life too; unfortunately, it didn't go so well between us... She broke all forms of contact with me and even dropped out of school. =( But it's a good thing that you two are on better terms without that other guy in the middle of it.

    • I have a problem ro, i worry about literally everything! Ive been currently worrying about the thought of worrying D: Its been so annoying and frustrating and makes me feel very depressed! I've talked to my parents about it and they say its just me growing up O.o cus im a teen. Anyone else have this?
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    • BlackKitty wrote:

      I have a problem ro, i worry about literally everything! Ive been currently worrying about the thought of worrying D: Its been so annoying and frustrating and makes me feel very depressed! I've talked to my parents about it and they say its just me growing up O.o cus im a teen. Anyone else have this?


      Yeah, I'm a big worrier too. I often worry about things that I can't even fix, or about people I should not worry over. I don't think it's necessary to grow up, as your parents say, but what I think they mean is it is a phase you are going through, and that's not necessarily a bad thing, as long as it doesn't make life terribly difficult.

      My therapist talked with me to help me stop worrying. While I still do, I did find something she suggested which helped considerably. She recommends I mentally recite at least part of the "Serenity Prayer," and I usually say this part: "God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; courage to change the things I can; and wisdom to know the difference." You can leave religion out of it, too; I sometimes leave out the mention of God. But I feel it helps nonetheless. Hope this helps. :)

    • BlackKitty wrote:

      I have a problem ro, i worry about literally everything! Ive been currently worrying about the thought of worrying D: Its been so annoying and frustrating and makes me feel very depressed! I've talked to my parents about it and they say its just me growing up O.o cus im a teen. Anyone else have this?

      Me too , you're not the only one :| , i'm often depressed by worries, sometimes i'm so worry that my friends said i gonna have heartattack at 50 years. But me , worries are different, well , i'm worry about school , the rate , my study , "what can i choose the next year? ", ect but i'm worried about my own existence , about disease ,about people, you know, now i'm fine , but sometimes it's horrible.
      And If i'm depressed it aslo by the fact that people don't think about them , they judge you , they make fun of you, and they don't think about them , they are like sheeps in the society , and it makes me different. I'm also depressed by the relationships with others, you know i have friends , but some people think i'm a retard , but they don't know me , when you say something , they are like" wtf? why am i with this strange dude?" , it's happens sometimes , they are like good people and if you want to talk with them they are like irresponsable dad "I DON'T CAAARE", maybe that's me , so that makes me depressed :| .

      But now it's fine , i have many friends ,I find it easier to talk with them, and i ask me that i'm not the only one , and many people in the world are living a nightmare.

      I hope it will help some bros :D , you know you have one life , don't waste it like pewdie waste his lantern.
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