Personal view on long distance relationships?

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    • -smiles- I know how you feel completely.

      I'm in one myself, with the admin here, Mkerix. And I got to meet him last Sunday, and let me tell you, don't let distance get you down, because if you love the person enough, you'll find a way to see them and be with them no matter what.
      I view long distance relationships sort of up and down sometimes, since one, if both are not committed, it will fail completely.
      Although if both are, then it will work. <3


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    • I am in a long-distance relationship for 3 and a half months now. I understand how you feel. I didn't meet my boyfriend yet but maybe even this or the next summer i will.
      I totally agree with Leafy. If both sides are committed to it, and if they both try and work hard for it to work out, you will still love and be happy as much as you would if it were a relationship 'in real life'.
      To be honest, a pretty long ago, i've been one of the "haters" of long-distance relationships. I was one of those "Oh, please, you can't kiss him. You can't hug him and it's just pointless.", until i fell in love for the first time to someone that wasn't in my country. Then i understood. <3
      All thou i hate that my friends are tooo shallow about it and they don't trust anyone on the internet. Like "you don't know who that is! It can be anyone behind the other side of the screen! It can be some pedophile!".
      Witch i agree,it can happen, but jesus.


    • A lot of my more committed relationships started off as online... though... the first two didn't end well due to a small common factor between the both of them -- let's just say someone who claimed to have been my friend was really just an insane sociopath -- and probably still is. However, I'm living with my fiance of going on two years now. We've known each other for about three years, and we met online -- about a year and a half of our time knowing each other has been all from being online and talking with one another, playing video games, drawing, and role playing with one another whenever we were both online.

      I'll be honest, when I was younger, I thought that online relationships were a waste of time, and weren't worth the effort. Though... now that I'm older and have been known to be more reclusive and prone to keeping to myself, I find solace in not having that physical contact just quite yet until I form a better relationship with someone in particular. So... personally, I guess I feel more comfortable getting to know someone, and developing a form of relationship without a visual bias -- it makes it feel a little more special, in my opinion.

      Though... of course not everyone's going to be the same. *shrugs* I find it a little sad that some people that actually do online relationships are soon clouded by that visual judgement later on in their relationship when they get to meet that person, or see them over webcam, pictures, etc.... I mean, if they make you happy, why should it matter?

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    • well i have on aand off feelings about this depending on my mood

      it may seem hard but in the end it will be worth it

      and if you have been doing this for a while meeting them will feel so much greater
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    • Well all 3 of my boyfriends have been online so I guess its something I'm used to. Yeah I'd really prefer to be close by since I want to cuddle but I dunno, it just seems to me that its easier to find someone similar to you when you have the whole world to search through.
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