How do I explain this to the kids in my Year at school?

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    • How do I explain this to the kids in my Year at school?

      Hey bros, it's been a while since I've been seen on the PDP forums under a different name since I always forget my passwords.

      So, my problem is, I'm currently off school because I'm ill again, we don't know what it is but my tummy is really swollen and I look like I'm pregnant. Since about 5 months ago I've been following a band that aren't that well-known and everyone in my year at school hate them. I get to talk to the lead singer a lot online and he thinks I'm a bit weird since I have a crush on him and I always ask him weird questions, I also get to talk to the guitarist but only when he's playing DotA, the bass guitarist has emailed me once and the drummer snapchats me sometimes. A while ago there was some confusion and people thought I was dating the lead singer, but he's like 25 and I've never met him but he does visit around where I live often so next time he is here, I'm going to walk about 30 miles (That's normal for me to walk that far). People still believe that I'm dating him and when I posted a photo of me wearing one of the band's shirts, one of the people from my year asked if I was pregnant.

      I'm 12 and in year 8 (second year of high school) if that makes it worse. But unless the swelling goes down then I'll have to do a lot of explaining, because everyone knows kids my age believe everything.

      to summarise it:

      I fancy a guy who is 25 and in a band, people in my year think we are dating and I'm ill and my tummy is swollen so I look pregnant. But I've never met him, I would've met him today but since I'm ill I couldn't go to meet him. But I'm sure the people of my year will think that he got me pregnant.

      How do I even explain this to them

    • "Hello sir, I'm Chris Hansen with Dateline NBC, and we are doing a story on, people who ask young children on the Internet for sex."

      Tell them that Chris Hansen happened. Making the 25 year old band member, seem to the school as a raging pedophile.

      Underage sex is illegal, and saying to them that thing above, they would understand that it's not possible to be pregnan, you were there to catch him out.

    • People this days hmmm...making false things and spread it a lot as possible
      That is so fucked on having a situation like that but tell them you are not pregnant,no relationship with the lead singer
      How to prove? Perhaps and ultrasound or a doctor's medical certificate proving you are not pregnant
      And with the relationship...I'm not quite sure but just stay away with the lead singer as possible that might do it perhaps...

    • None of their business, simple as that. Say what you have to say but ignore provocations. I was judged a lot since my bf is 7 years older than me and I started dating him when I was 16 actually. People are attention whores. They will make ANYTHING look big just so the could talk. So to be honest, you have no obligation towards anyone to justify yourself and what you do. If you are worried about being bullied or anything then you're just being silly. People bully people for no reason at all as well. Just be cool about it. Think of a few witty come backs on possible questions or comments and you're good to go. It is really the best thing you can do to make it easier to yourself. Good luck ;)
      On the outside I may appear like an emotionless sarcastic piece of shit, but just like an onion, when you peel off more layers, you find the exact same thing every single time and you start crying.



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    • Just don't care. I mean you and the Kids in your year are only 12. I don't want to be offensive or something but some People that Age are just very immature and just want to have a reason to bully. When I was 12 everyone said that I was gay just because I like Art and Singing.When they got older, they will stop to say those stupid things.Just keeep calm and actually you can just wait nine Months,then everyone will see thatyou wasn't pregnant ;) :D
      sorry for wrong grammar if there is any

    • Master Excuse!!!

      Tell them that recently. You've been working with a government programme. That has had you secretly traveling the world to strange and unknown locations. You were on a mission into the iamnotaliar Jungle in an extreme situation to save the world.
      You tripped a trap by accident which left you ambushed and so you had to sprint away into the depths of the jungle. As you weaved your way around bullets and missiles, you eventually lost the ambushers.
      You then Collectively gathered in your surroundings and traversed your way back to the chemical station where you planted explosives and disabled the station, thus saving the world. However some chemicals managed to splash their way onto your belly and now you're here as you are now!!!

      That is all :)

    • Dont bother trying to explain dude, kids your age are just looking for an excuse to make fun of someone. This plight wont even matter in a few years and it wont affect anything long-term wise.. Just 'haters gonna hate' through this thing..