Bros, Love Situation!

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  • Bros, Love Situation!

    I have a crush on my BFF and she said we will be friends forever, and i kinda want to be her boyfriend.
    she just broke up from a douchebag, and i helped her forget him that made me think what if i was her boyfriend,
    i know what she likes what she doesn't likes and...
    GUHHH!
    Shampoo.
  • Need it or not, i'd like to give you a tip or two as a fellow bro and what not. I've been in the friendzone like maaaany other men and possibly woman wherever the number ratios out... But anyways! lol Just show her that you can be the best guy for her, and don't play the victim, don't give her that sobby feeling around her, and be yourself. And if it helps, just try and lean yourself towards being a guy that wants to actually be her bf instead of just a really good friend.
  • Advice from the girl's point of view... As her friend you can learn a lot more about her than as her boyfriend. And when the time is good like when u have a chance to do something for her go ahead. But never and I mean NEVER try too hard and put yourself through misery if she's not interested. Eventually even if you fail, you will find someone who will like you as a guy not as a friend. Don't loose your head over that it's not worth it. You'll get your chance ;)
    On the outside I may appear like an emotionless sarcastic piece of shit, but just like an onion, when you peel off more layers, you find the exact same thing every single time and you start crying.



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  • Thing is, take it from me, some girls love having their best friend as their boyfriend. They feel lucky! Just keep on trying, if she says no the first time, carry on trying. Just DON'T TAKE IT PERSONALLY IF SHE SAYS NO! That would mean she just wants to stay friend.~ Girls love it when boys actually put effort in.I hope this helps!
  • If you want to be her boyfriend in just seconds then you are a fool for thinking that
    1st You're not the one to make decisions on who will she love
    2nd Patience if you want her
    3rd Watch what will happen next if fail then there are like billions of girls out there

    ^Why didn't I do this when I was in love O_o

  • Tazumoto, that is quite possibly one of the most insparational things I have ever heard!
    Awesome quote/saying!

    To the OP:
    As everybody else said, you just got friendzoned!
    Don't worry, I've been friendzoned quite a few times! It'll probably bug the hell out of you until you go crawling to her begging why she wont take you. My advice? DO IT SOONER! I kid you not! Unless of course her friendship means that much to you!

    Tell her how you feel and make sure you get a reason why she wont, if she wont!
    Then you can change yourself for somebody new! :)
    Trust me!
  • From what I've experienced the only way to get out of the friend zone would be to get her jelly. This is not by any means a good sulotion, because she will only think she likes you and you'll end up getting hurt (again?).

    I did this to a girl, because at that point I'd sacrifice anything to get in a relationship with her. Ended up with a broken heart and one less friend.

    Just try to accept the fact that she doesn't like you. It's not because you're bad in any way, it's because people search for different things.
    I'm sure you have friends you'd never want to get in a relationship with. Try to compare that feeling to what she might feel for you. (If that makes any sense to you. I'm Swedish, so my English is not the best!)

    Hope you can sort your feelings. No matter what it's fully okay to feel sad or down about it. Life will not always go your way.
    This is not the last time you'll fall in love! :)
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