Twixie , look , I will try to speak so that you can understand :

Twixie wrote:

Wait , you always need to wait , because at your age , a relationship may look 'normal' but it's not

Twixie wrote:

What the hell does that mean? 'normal'???? I just... what?

Normal relationship =a usual relationship between a girl and a boy , where they have something special in common

Twixie wrote:

And also , if you think better , it will be more awesome when you are 18 years old .

Twixie wrote:

And do relationships just magically turn into something really awesome and amazing on the second you turn 18?

Not really in that second ... I mean that at 18 years you are considered bodily mautre and stuff ... you can do most stuff that you couldn't make because you were a teenager , including a realtionship with no problams about school and learning ( that you had when you were a teenager and you had to learn for exams and bla bla bla )

Twixie wrote:

.You still have time to play games and other stuff , because when you start a realtionship , there is no way back ... for the fun and the free time that you had before

Twixie wrote:

Um.. I actually have even more fun now that I have a boyfriend.. and I still have the same amount of freetime as I had before?If your bf/gf doesn't let you to do the things you want to do, maybe you should consider leaving him/her...

That's your case Twixie with the fun and freetime ... I mean that a realationship can be really annoying and expensive ( maybe) for Doyll , with his life style of lonely wolf ... with his personal stuff

Twixie wrote:

.Statistically in a relationship , there must be a diference of 1-2 years minimum of ages between the boy and the girl to be a good realtionship . I don't know why , but in this way they have equal intelligence level ...

Twixie wrote:

That's not exactly necessary, is it?

From my part ... If you don't realize that your boyfriend , since he is smarter than you, is cheating you with another girl, do what you want ... ( I took it as an example, do not take it that seriously )

Twixie wrote:

In conclusion : wait , have fun with friends and being alone until you have time ... and also , ( if you want to prepare yourself about realationships ) watch animes/movies about romance and other similar stuff , learn some tricks until you are ready for 'love' .

Twixie wrote:

Love and relationships in real life are nothing compared to the ones in movies..

Maybe they aren't like that ... but movies are based on real life stuff , filled with creativity and fantasy .....

Actually yeah, relationships are "magically" different between 14 to 18, and then to something like 21. Don't take the numbers literally, but you change so much as a person in those years, and that will effect your relationships and friendships. You'll look back when you're 18 and think "why was I even worried about that? I was just a kid"; and then when you're 21 (or in your 20s, whatever) you'll probably think "I was such an idiot when I was 18." All because you just change as a person.

You might have fun dating when you're a teenager, don't think it's a bad thing in anyway, but it's nothing to worry about and get hung up on when it doesn't happen.

I really have no idea what's going on here..so I shall read em' all

Zer0\From\Romania wrote:

Maybe they aren't like that ... but movies are based on real life stuff , filled with creativity and fantasy .....

Yep, FANTASY. They're not real.

It's like man deodorant adverts, I think it was Durex? Lol I can't remember but it shows a guy who used the deodorant and then there are ladies coming to this direction. The whole point is that you buy their deodorant, the ladies will get ya so it's a fantasy.

LOL oh god my bad.

NuMetalWolf wrote:

RebelNinja89 wrote:

Zer0\From\Romania wrote:

Maybe they aren't like that ... but movies are based on real life stuff , filled with creativity and fantasy .....

Yep, FANTASY. They're not real.

It's like man deodorant adverts, I think it was Durex? Lol I can't remember but it shows a guy who used the deodorant and then there are ladies coming to this direction. The whole point is that you buy their deodorant, the ladies will get ya so it's a fantasy.

Really? So the point is to get ladies? I thought it was to not stink... :p

XD talked about it in health lesson. I'm too lazy to write it in detail anyways

NuMetalWolf wrote:

RebelNinja89 wrote:

NuMetalWolf wrote:

Really? So the point is to get ladies? I thought it was to not stink... :p

XD talked about it in health lesson. I'm too lazy to write it in detail anyways

LOL I got it, i was just joking. :p

*facepalm* i'm too tired to think XD

Remember love is like a flower it takes time grow and u still young for love take ur time

No sense ... looks like it was no need , for me , to make a post on this thread ... if Twixie always brings "What the hell does that mean? "
And no , I can't work yeat .... I'm still 15 years , so I still need to study ... then get the ladies ... That's what my mother says always .... And that I wanted to recommend to Doyll too , that's all about ... understand ???
Twixie ... I'm sorry , that my logic differs from yours ... I guess it's good if we are like this , like fire(Twixie) and water(Zer0)...

Just make sure that your beeing yourself so that the girl likes your personality and dont be afraid to tell her how you feel, because she will love it on the inside although the outside may show something different and it'll make you look like boss.

Most of the stuff has already been said and I don't intend on commenting about the main question again, however regarding online relationships:
It's wrong to think that they can't work, or well, it's pessimistic. I don't want to go in any detail about my life when talking about this, so I'll just link you this article and the hint that you can feel free to check through what I and others posted about this in another thread (just search for it).

People are people... If you just treat other people like a person instead of worrying "what girls like" or "what guy want" etc then it's a lot easier to just interact with people and find someone you like and hit it off.

Don't think of it as "girl's like personality", it's not a game... Your partner should be your best friend.

N

NuMetalWolf wrote:

Kerrima wrote:

People are people... If you just treat other people like a person instead of worrying "what girls like" or "what guy want" etc then it's a lot easier to just interact with people and find someone you like and hit it off.

Don't think of it as "girl's like personality", it's not a game... Your partner should be your best friend.

I agree with you.. But once i heard you say 'your partner should be your best friend'...
I think it's complicated, even considering what some people once said to me before, that 'friendships are friendships, and they differ from love'..
Well, never happened to me before, but i still saw people who were good friends in highschool and suddenly started a relationship.. Well, it can vary, right?

Maybe not literally the same, but a partner is also a friend is what I meant.