You're 14. Give it a couple years.

Most people in school (so mostly girls) I knew didn't date until they were 15/16; and I didn't until I was 18.

14 is pretty young to be dating anyway.

You're lucky, you haven't had to deal with the pain of breaking up with someone you really care about. You're only 14, you've barely seen life yet, don't be in such a hurry to find relationships, they can be the best thing that's ever happened to you, but they can also be the worse thing to ever happen and leave nothing but pain.

Dude, you're 14 have patience and wait for a few years.
I got my first girlfriend only a year ago and I was 22 then.
Don't let pressure from class mates, family members drive you insane.
And try chatting with foreign girls on the web cuz that's how I got my lovely Japanese girlfriend!

Do not fall for one on the internet.

While it can be sad at times, do not let a lack of a girlfriend consume you. Enjoy your time with friends. Play games, play sports, watch movies, stay up late! Girls will step into the picture sooner or later.

Remember be you, have fun, and have patience.

You're young. High spirited and all. Break some vases, play with your friends, and ring someone's doorbell. Enjoy your life the way you should. Besides, what's so awesome about having a girlfriend at your age anyway? Because it's "Hip"? Just befriend all of your friends like they're your own girlfriend. In the end they're someone that you SHOULD protect. Or someone that WILL protect you. That'll do just fine.

Personally anyway.

Yes they are right Doyll Dont start a relationshop too soon

Dear brobro,
at your age, the chances of you finding a solid girlfriend is slim to none. Statistically, you're not very likely to marry your high school girlfriend.
If it's really causing you troubles though, then you should put yourself out there. If you're reserved and keeping to yourself, then that's your problem. Don't be afraid to present your personality, otherwise a girl will never be attracted to you. If a girl doesn't like your personality, then it will never work out between the two of you to begin with.
You need to learn ways that are expressive of your self, and hope that the girl that appreciates it will come to you.
glhf, mon ami.

Doyll , I know how you fell about this .... being alone at your age . But , I recomend you some things ...


1. Wait , you always need to wait , because at your age , a relationship may look 'normal' but it's not. And also , if you think better , it will be more awesome when you are 18 years old .


2.You still have time to play games and other stuff , because when you start a realtionship , there is no way back ... for the fun and the free time that you had before

3.Statistically in a relationship , there must be a diference of 1-2 years minimum of ages between the boy and the girl to be a good realtionship . I don't know why , but in this way they have equal intelligence level ...


In conclusion : wait , have fun with friends and being alone until you have time ... and also , ( if you want to prepare yourself about realationships ) watch animes/movies about romance and other similar stuff , learn some tricks until you are ready for 'love' .


Remamber :
'Do not go hunting without a gun'

"Love is war ..... and in a war , if you are not prepared , you will die and lose the war'

Have you been so excited on a relationship??? LOL I'm 13 and not that excited to make a thread about relations

Not sure if I call that good for you or not :\
I know for me that I am not ready for this kind of thing yet :thumbdown:

Yeah something like you imagine while listening to a song.Happens to me sometimes

It was ridiculous for me to date a guy at such a young age(first date was like Year 8 ) and now I don't really give a crap about relationships. From what I have been skimming through on this thread, haha well just wait for the right time. You are only 14 and there are so many more things to worry/care about than a relationship. Trust me, you would want to enjoy your teenage years as much as you can because when it comes to reality(jobs, paying for your own bills, etc) then I guess you don't have the time and freedom to enjoy whatever you like. To be honest, this is a big thing for me to say because I'm only 15 turning into a 16 year old girl XD
It's true that high school girls are crazy with getting a boyfriend for many reasons.
Ok peer pressuring?
Showing yourself off?
Be part of the typical sea of people and whatever that is common these days.
Yeah it's great that you have a boyfriend/girlfriend but that can wait.
I still currently like this guy who we dated for quite a while but we are still good friends. Things didn't go right for us but I don't really mind waiting. (I have been waiting for about 2 years or so but oh well)
Yes there are plenty fishes in the sea but it ain't simple to catch a big/rare/magnificent fish(Magikarp? XD).

Dude don't be sad :L It seems like a big deal at this stage but you can live through it. This is not the end of the world because you are single-prinkle
Also beware of getting peer pressured because I had it twice, didn't learned from my first but I finally got it at my second. Well I sorta regretted being at the situation but I know how to avoid it.
Sorry for a super long paragraph

No rush, bro. The right person will come in time. It's better to wait than end up in a crappy meaningless relationship just for the sake of having a girlfriend.