First Relationships!

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    • First Relationships!

      Hey bros!
      I decided to make a thread about first relationships because I thought it would be an interesting topic to read stories on xD

      I must say my first one was in 7th grade with a girl named nancy. We got together on Christmas Eve and dated for about three months. We both had AWSOME parents who were cool with it all so we could spend all the time we wanted together. Sadly, I was too much of a scardy cat to kiss her so it never really got very far :(.

      Can't wait to read your bros stories!!!

    • Suprryan wrote:

      Hey bros!
      I decided to make a thread about first relationships because I thought it would be an interesting topic to read stories on xD

      I must say my first one was in 7th grade with a girl named nancy. We got together on Christmas Eve and dated for about three months. We both had AWSOME parents who were cool with it all so we could spend all the time we wanted together. Sadly, I was too much of a scardy cat to kiss her so it never really got very far :(.

      Can't wait to read your bros stories!!!

      I'm sorry to hear it didn't get very far! But hey, the past is the past, bro!

      As for mine. I dated a girl (also back in 7th grade) by the name of Lyndsey. Bright blue eyes, long blonde hair. She was a rebel too. Loved Green Day, The Misfits, The Who. A punk-rock type girl haha. She was my first kiss, I remember. Right outside Applebees at the local mall. I wasn't even ready for it. I told her she was beautiful and she said "Awh, come here!" and grabbed me by the face and kissed me. I was so shocked, my legs were shaking, hahaa. Well, she ended up cheating on me about 3 weeks in, with this Dylan kid. Dylan is now one of my closest friends. When I found out she had cheated on me with him (he told me) I told him to buy me a Monster Energy Drink and we'd be cool. Been cool ever since, 5 years later. :)

    • My first relationship is something I consider a success. We may have broken up, but just let me explain. The first guy I dated was really nice. He was cute, really tall and perhaps a little geeky. I found that all to be attractive though. He was the perfect gentleman. Oddly enough we first met each other at a Twilight movie. I'm not into the series, but it was a Friday night and I was bored with nothing to do. So I went with my cousin and her groups of friends to see it. Little did I know I would met my first boyfriend there. He's name is Vincent and throughout the movie we just quietly talked, making jokes about the whole thing. Like whenever Jacob was shirtless all the girls in the theater freaked out, so we would joke about them keeping their pants on, then we poked fun at each other.


      By the end of the night, we traded phone numbers and began to talk, then hang out. After a week, we decided to be serious about our relationship. Now, Vince was a really nice guy, just as I said. I had fun whenever I was around him. He was even my first kiss. However I had only mentioned to him once I wanted to take things slow, to go at our own pace, since I've noticed a lot of couples move too fast. Of course, he agreed, but every time we would cuddle and kiss, he would always stop, asking if he was going too fast. It was sweet for awhile, but that question tends to ruin the mood a bit, if you know what I mean. Even if he accidentally rubbed his arm against my boobs, he would freak out and apologize. Again sweet, but after awhile, it started making me feel uncomfortable.


      That wasn't the only problem. I started to feel like I wasn't falling in love with him. Granted, I don't know much about love, but I did know that if I wanted to give my virginity to someone, it had to be someone I loved. Even though he wasn't a virgin, it seemed he felt the same way. That we weren't working out together a serious couple. We never argued or anything like that, but we just didn't feel it. So our break up was agreed on and was very peaceful. From time to time we may chat with each other, but not a whole lot. Since we didn't have any drama after the break up though, I consider that the relationship was successful, even though it ended. Plus I was 17 at the time, which seems to be when a lot of people cause drama. xD

    • My first relationship is with this guy named Luke from Australia. It's a long distance relationship anyway. Well uhm, he is every man I could ever ask for, need or want rolled into one big mushy human being. He's the hero thats there when I need him to protect me from scary things and to be all manly like. He's squishy and soft and sometimes I need to be all manly like and protect him, but that's nice too.He's there for me when I need him to be, even when I dont want him to. He's sexy and wonderful and charming and knows me very well. Cutest bum out there and blue-est, coolest eyes ever. He listens, makes funny jokes and loves me. over all, inside outside and all around, he is fantastic. We're still together till this day, been together for a year now. I'm truly blessed <3

    • I was seventeen ... he was twenty-four. I was young and stupid. He was immature and stupid. Thought I loved him, together for a year. My sister gets engaged, he's like "You're next" and in my head I'm like "Hell no". First warning sign. I loved him as a friend, not as more. He wanted to be with me 24/7. Second warning. He wouldn't leave me alone at work, he constantly called me, constantly texted me. I go out with my friends (guys and girls included) and he was mad. Jealous. Third warning. I finally broke it off with him, stating I wanted to be just friends because it wasn't fair for me to hold either of us back. I couldn't give him what he wanted and he couldn't give me what I wanted.

      What happened then? He stalked me. Was on my street. Had his new girlfriend harass me. He asked for things back that he gave to me as gifts, and threatened to sue me over it. Had to change my number, he left our job. Recently, he returned to where I work. This time? I'm his boss xD Karma has never looked so good.

      Needless to say he's ruined me. Haven't been in a relationship since, but I have recently met someone who is making me change my mind.
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    • Gosh first relationship, ummm let's see 6th grade I dated this girl named Erin, I guess for a first relationship it was ok, it wasn't great but I actually had a good time:) we dated about 4 months and well you bros know that first relationship thing where you just like her more than anything and don't think there will ever be anyone else, and I was too much of a scarddy cat to kiss her or show too much effection. This was the downfall of the relationship. In the end it was the last day of school I have her a long hug goodbye because I wouldn't see her as much. I remember till this day at around 4pm she called handed the phone to her friend and her friend is the one that did the deed. Well that's it for my first but right now I'm currently in a long term relationship with someone:)

    • Trish-Ah wrote:

      I was seventeen ... he was twenty-four. I was young and stupid. He was immature and stupid. Thought I loved him, together for a year. My sister gets engaged, he's like "You're next" and in my head I'm like "Hell no". First warning sign. I loved him as a friend, not as more. He wanted to be with me 24/7. Second warning. He wouldn't leave me alone at work, he constantly called me, constantly texted me. I go out with my friends (guys and girls included) and he was mad. Jealous. Third warning. I finally broke it off with him, stating I wanted to be just friends because it wasn't fair for me to hold either of us back. I couldn't give him what he wanted and he couldn't give me what I wanted.

      What happened then? He stalked me. Was on my street. Had his new girlfriend harass me. He asked for things back that he gave to me as gifts, and threatened to sue me over it. Had to change my number, he left our job. Recently, he returned to where I work. This time? I'm his boss xD Karma has never looked so good.

      Needless to say he's ruined me. Haven't been in a relationship since, but I have recently met someone who is making me change my mind.
      Creepy :huh: Thank god you're not with him anymore. Karma definitely kicked him in the ass, hard. :thumbsup:

    • My first relationship was when I turned 15. It was a long distance relationship (well, not really, we lived close but it took us 1h by train to get to each other) so naturally we talked a lot on skype. No. I mean MSN. Yes, MSN was 'in' at that time.
      We were a gaming couple, that kind of stuff. We were dating for almost 1,5 years when he suddenly came back from a concert and told me he was bisexual and liked some guy. I'm not a homophobe, but getting the feeling that your boyfriend says he likes a guy kind of grossed me out. We weren't really going in the right direction anyway so he decided to break up with me 1 day before my birthday.
      I felt heartbroken. I don't really remember a lot about it (or maybe I just don't want to) but I do know that relationship was poison for me.
      He had such a bad influence, skipping school 80% of the time, drinking, cutting himself... he was such an emo kid. I broke off any contact with him. I think 2,5 years ago he tried to contact me again, asking me how I was but also trying to emotionally get to me again.
      "I've got no friends anymore, I'm not doing well at school. I've got no one left..."
      But to be honest, I couldn't give a crap. I was happy he left me so I could move on to find the love of my life.

      Anyway, 5 months later after he broke up with me, I met my current (and last, if I have a say in it!) boyfriend on a fan community website for Aion (MMO).
      We met up in August 2009 and have been dating ever since. He lives in the same city (ish) as my ex boyfriend, so at first I was terrified to go to the station. The chance was pretty high I'd see my ex and I REALLY didn't need that. At all. When I look back I do question myself WHAT THE HELL I WAS THINKING but I guess everyone has that at a certain point in their lives.
      But 3 years and 6 months later, we're still as happy as we could ever be!
      Gaming is a HUGE part of our lives -we can't go without it- and I'm happy to have found him. He's studying game development and is an aspiring 3D high poly artist where as I'm a freelance illustrator and aspiring (3D) character/concept artist.
      We're always searching for new MMO's (yeah, we're THAT kind of gaming couple, we simply love MMO's.) or shooters and I'm happy that I've always got someone with me to play something new. c:

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    • I was 'with' a girl before this, but I'm not going to talk about that. O_O

      Middle School (6th Grade)
      Lesley was her name.
      We weren't together long, and after the first girl I kissed passed away I was really reserved about being attached to anything else.
      So, I opened up to this one, and saved up what money I could from the Dividend(Alaska Residency Paycheck) and spent $250 on her for Valentine's Day.
      She took what I gave her and walked away after kissing my cheek only to come BACK to me 10 minutes later to tell me she was leaving me for some other boy, keeping what I gave her, and never wanted to speak to me again.
      Broken heart -_-

      Well, that was a -long- time ago, and I'm well out of High School and College, so... yay?

    • Well, can't say that it's a serious relationship. There's no proposal or anything.. Just
      "Hey, you wanna hang out?"
      "Sure"
      It's rather a dull story to be honest.
      But yeah, a supposedly-good-relationship turned to a major shithole because some of "Those" friends. If they were actually my friends.

      If you're angry, don't break anybody's heart, they only have one..... Break their bones, they have 206 of them

    • One does not simply have an easy first relationship, mine is somewhat.. different. I was hanging out online when suddenly i met this girl.. Dont skip away from me just yet. Anyways, We started to get to know eachother and eventually started going out. We face timed eachother, and talked to eachother alot. I helped her out as much as i could, and she did the same in return. It was a good time. Then when day, she said to my brother to tell me that it wasnt going to work out, that long distance relationships dont last... Alas, I was heartbroken. I have learnt from that mistake and moved on. Now Im going out with, what i would say, the most beautiful person in the world :D

    • i think my "real" first relationship was with a girl in my class. unfortunately i was so stupid to break up with her because my best friend also liked her... maybe it wasn't bad after all, it happened 5 years ago and i'm still close friend with that guy. at least i learned useful things from that c:
      "Bonds of people is the true power"

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