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TheIntrovert wrote:

Lololo, how can you guys give such advise for a first date? Are we in the 70's? Limos? wtf.

Go out with her, get something alcoholic (depends if she drinks - if not, get only for you), sit somewhere and talk. First impression, my ass. If you really like her and she does too, nobody will care about expensive shit, when you can just sit on a bench at the park.

In case you didn't notice, the limo and stuff was a joke.

Tips if you go to cinema:

• Either watch a horror or watch something that's quite emotional. Unless she's one of those girls who likes action stuff instead or comedy. Emotional stuff tend to give advantage in a sense that you can wipe her tears should she cry. We all know what horror does for couples lolz.
• Ever heard of "The yawning technique"? This technique is not to be executed unless you know that there is already a build up of trust between the two of you. Execute it tactically and she should be in your arms by the end of the cinema.
• Personally, I've done this particular trick and it helps a lot. Sit away from the crowd. If the cinema is packed, it's hard to but try as much as you can to avoid crowd so that you have a personal space for the two of you.
• Personally, again, this one is hard especially if you're like me. Flat broke with no job... (Well... That or you haven't gotten paid yet lolz or mum/dad's bank is closed xD) but if you can, be the person that says "This one's on me". This might say to them "I'm rich" but in honesty, it's saying this: "I really want to spend time with you and I will do anything I can to ensure it happens"

Here's some tips also if you go to dinner with her:

• Conversation starters: Never go straight to personal. I've done this before and it kind of ends the conversation way too quickly and you go into awkward silence mode. Start with something random... It makes them want to talk more (but not too random that it makes them feel weirded out). If you want to, maybe talk about the place you're eating in, or what she ordered.
• Like the cinema one, if you can do it, go for "This one's on me".
• Show some passion. When people talk, they get interested when a person suddenly gets this passionate aura around them. It's saying to them "I want to know this person more" BUT! Yes, there is a but... Be careful not to confuse passion with ego. If you start showing off, it will start to make them feel degenerated, it might make them think their not as good as you or you start to look like a jerk to them. Be careful with this one.

And tips for walking home:

• If you can spend as much time with them as possible, do it. Walk them home or if they want to go somewhere else for a bit like a park or something, go with them. Never let an opportunity pass to spend time with them. Make each and every time you spend with her precious and use as much of your free time.
• Try to bring a jacket as much as you can before heading out. The reason behind the jacket is when they start to feel cold or something, you can keep them warm. If it's really cold for you as well, be prepared and have some sort of warming layer for yourself, that way, you're prepared for the cold weather and you can keep her warm at the same time.
• If your in a car or a bus together and she starts to feel tired, use that moment and ask her if she wants to put her head on your shoulder. If she says no, be a bit persistent. Show her you really care because you want to be that person she relies on when she needs it most.
• If you end up splitting from each other because you live in two totally separate areas (as you just said pretty much) be sure to text/call her to see if she made it home safely. The danger of having to move away from each other is that both of become vulnerable in a sense. Check if she's ok and ensure to her that you are also safe to ensure she doesn't worry about you.

Hmm That's about everything I got. I really shouldn't be talking about relationships because I'm still quite torn by it but when a fellow bro needs help, I'll try my best to help them out. These things aren't 100% effective but I hope they can at least give you some help for you. Best of luck man and remember.


"When life gives you bullets... CORMANOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!"

I suggest that you dont make the Move wait for her to make her move, but if you want to make the move then go for HONESTY yes that is the key, Words can be good enough.