I'm not sure I understand the problem. You might as well just ask her how she feels about you.

I agree - you kind of have to put a little more into the story. I mean, generally when someone confesses .. .you either learn that they like you or they don't. If she didn't give you an answer, it's best to ask her how she feels. If she doesn't give you the answer you are looking for - the best way to go about things is to stay friends.

I don't understand the problem.
Explain, please.

Well I reckon since suddenly she talks less to you, she doesn't feel the same for you. It is easiest for her not to talk about it, because she probably doesn't want to hurt you.
Thats how it sounds to me, and in case it is you have 2 choices: face her with it or just try to forget her.

Sorry bro.

I agree. It may be bad news to come for you dude. I would personally move on, even though that's easier said than done, because it sounds to me she is moving on from you and doesn't have the heart to tell you.

i can't say i have alot of experience but it seems that she is trying to forget about it, but if it was me i would just tell her to forget what you told her and try to keep the friendship together, not every one does match for each other and she's maybe not ready to go in on relationship with you, she havent told you that she dont have feelings for you have she? no.. she is just holding the bad news back to not hurt you cause she probably cares about you, and if you ask me.. that! is a good sign.
i can't say that is a 100% rejection.. that's my opinion.

Personally I think holding something like that back out of "caring" is extremely cruel and ironic.

Okay, sounds like a situation I ran into before. Basically, it sounds like by her talking less with you is her trying to distant herself because she doesn't care about you like that - and that she's slowly trying to break away from you. In all honesty, if she was a great friend - she wouldn't back away and just be honest - but this isn't the case. Generally, I keep them out of my life for the sole fact that if they didn't want to me to be apart of theirs, they don't deserve to be in mine.

But if you want to save the friendship - confront her and tell her you are okay with being just friends. Otherwise, it's best to give her space - and to try to to move on.

Indeed it is! and i feel bad for the man, apparently he got great feelings for this woman and he get that slapped in the face..
but as i said that was my opinion of it. some people do mistakes but don't notice them before it is to late.

I'm sorry man, but it looks like she doesn't feel the same from all I've read. I find it rude of her, however, to distance herself like that.

Errr... Everyone keeps saying that something bad might be coming. I'm no expert on love nor do I even consider my views valid but this situation sounds more like one of those moments that occur when one confesses and the other gets in a state where they don't know what to say because they don't want to hurt the other or they don't want to admit that they might like em back.


Personally, I don't know where the distancing comes from but they always happen in these kinds of situations. It's best you give it a good couple of days and if within those couple of days nothing is said, best you ask. It's a good idea to let them explore how they feel rather than asking them straight away without giving them time to think because they might feel that they might actually like you back but they just couldn't quite tell whether it was that or if it's something else. I'm positive on the idea that this will fix itself with time and with actions carefully made. However, I can't say if she likes you back or not, one because we need her opinion and two, it must've been too sudden for her (even if they don't show it outside, the inside would be shocked) so her response would be eluded too easily if it was a quick answer. Believe in the positive side my friend, be optimistic about it (but not too much that it becomes an illusion, still keep yourself in reality :3)


Good luck :)

LOL. I tried this on my ex-crush before. Ex-crush/ex-bestfriend. I don't really have a feelings for her when I confessed and we took that as a joke.xD

Optimist: She's either shy to tell you that she also likes you. Thus the distant and awkward moments you are having now.

Pessimist: The truth hurts man. She moved on, and you should too.

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