The first sight

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    • The first sight

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      The human, no matter how much he'll try, will always be judgemental, even unconsciously.

      Without really thinking about it, a torrent of thoughts rush through your head when you see a person for the first time, making a global idea of what the person is, based on every kind of "signals" his being reflects (sad looking, messy,...). This is why you'd go and talk to someone, more than another one.
      How do you deal with this ? What is the first thing you look at when you meet someone for the first time ?

      Let's talk about the first sight.

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    • It depends where and when i meet this person and how she/he looks like.
      Lets use a real example here.
      My sisters boyfriend is really neat, well dressed and reserved.
      He is at our place pretty often and yeah, he knows us pretty well by now.
      When i first met him, i knew exactly that he is one of those really dry motherfuckers that doesnt have any sense of humor and doesnt talk much at all. You know what? I was right and i fucking hate that guy.
      Wish he'd open up more.

      On the other hand, i rarely judge people from looks.
      But its pretty easy with all stereotypes around here.
    • From the scientific side you judge people by their smell on the first sight. Subconsciously your brain decides whether the smell of a person appeals to you, meaning if the other person fits to you. Only after this first judgement you go by other criteria.
      This also why social judgement is harder on the internet.
    • I was best friends with this girl in my year for 3 years. The first time you meet her, she's lovely. She's pretty, warm-hearted, kind, all that shit.
      Now I can't stand the fucking sight of her.
      She's a backstabbing, manipulative, little bitch. (I know I sound like a jealous high school girl but really, its true.)
      Some people just aren't who they seem to be.
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    • I typically judge by the facial expressions and body language they give off. If they speak around me I can sometimes judge how they are based upon the cadence of their voice. But I find most judgement-casting unfair so I try not to be too immediate with my opinions on a person before I cactually have an in-depth discussion with them. Sometimes people surprise me, since typically I am pessimistic in my judgement sometimes.