Hatred.

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    • Hatred.

      Hate. A really strong feeling that most of us feel, if it be hating yourself, or hating another, that is up to the person. I'm gonna just explain some things, and just throw some advice out. I'm a hateful person, as you all know. I also am very open about what I think, and will not hesitate to throw my opinion out there. That's me. I try not to be hateful with people, and I even feel bad most of the time about it. People wonder why. I got my temper from abuse as a child, being a borderline alcoholic, and my self esteem being so low. I also get some of my quick-heated temper from my dad, as that's what I dealt with everyday in my younger days.

      To the point, I think I am a piece of shit. If I am, or not, I dunno. Don't care. Unless it effects a certain relationship of mine. For the people who think they aren't worth anything, or hate themselves, you shouldn't. A person either see's the worse in themselves, or the better. You might act like anyway you want, or treat yourself badly, but you can BE anything you want. Who cares if people like it or not? Not me. My name is Michael, and I am special education student who is emotionally unstable at times with pretty much no talents. The positives? I make people laugh. That's not much.

      Now, onto people who show hatred to others. Either you are a asshole, or you act like one. If it's because it makes you feel better about yourself, try helping people. It's what I try to do. Or maybe you naturally have a temper, which can't be helped. You can try to make it less of a problem, but it will always be there. People with tempers don't just magically stop being hot-headed. Alot of people don't understand how depressing it can be, to have your mood crushed over feeling a little jealous of your girlfriend talking to a friend, or bitching someone out when they say something small to you. Some people just can't control it, and it should be realized. Be a friend to a ''asshole'' and maybe that person will find peace. Being a asshole back will not solve anything. This was just me ranting, and explaining my temper a bit. Feel free to complain, throw your opinion, agree, or disagree. Anything is welcome here right now.

    • I don't even know,i don't think someone can be called hateful person just because them say what them think,thats the right thing to do in the first place,having your own opinion about the things and doesnt give a single fuck about it.

      People are always telling them are not worth of someone,them are just a piece of shit,none of them are these,hate isn't itself a strong word like "love" people,hate is everywhere,hate is born from the inner thought of doesn't accepting something so itself are not that strong,people that usually don't tell what them have to tell are the most hatefull people,liars,always want to the others to take care of them,wanting someone to love or love something like this word are nothing,them don't even understand the meaning of the words.

      Acting impulsive are not the best but certains people just can't deny it,its themselves like you said,temper are not something that can be controled like this,but being a fuckin asshole,or doing things just to show up is disgusting.

      The most of people that are the hatefull ones are the people that i can more trust myself on them even if i'm not close to them,the word try to tell us something but the feeling are different from the word i would say.

    • Enuo wrote:

      I don't even know,i don't think someone can be called hateful person just because them say what them think,thats the right thing to do in the first place,having your own opinion about the things and doesnt give a single fuck about it.

      People are always telling them are not worth of someone,them are just a piece of shit,none of them are these,hate isn't itself a strong word like "love" people,hate is everywhere,hate is born from the inner thought of doesn't accepting something so itself are not that strong,people that usually don't tell what them have to tell are the most hatefull people,liars,always want to the others to take care of them,wanting someone to love or love something like this word are nothing,them don't even understand the meaning of the words.

      Acting impulsive are not the best but certains people just can't deny it,its themselves like you said,temper are not something that can be controled like this,but being a fuckin asshole,or doing things just to show up is disgusting.

      The most of people that are the hatefull ones are the people that i can more trust myself on them even if i'm not close to them,the word try to tell us something but the feeling are different from the word i would say.

      What I meant as hateful person, is pointing out flaws in public, as I have done. Such as someone with bad typing, and you call them a dumbass. I do that alot. I do know what you mean though. Thank's for posting your opinion, I was hoping someone would.

    • I don't like to think of myself as a hateful person, just someone who finds a lot of flaws in a lot of people and things... :P (including myself)
      And very unforgiving.
      There is only one person out there I hate, and will always hate, with a passion. Everyone else just annoys me..
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    • The feeling of hatred doesn't come by itself. The human being is often qualified by philosophers, or scientists, as a "social animal". We, human, are born and built to be social, make friends and live together. A proof is the fact that the feeling of loneliness is located in the same part of the brain as the physical pain, explaining why it hurts so much.
      So, in such a context, it's hard to believe that the hatred feeling can come naturally. And I actually don't believe it.

      I honestly assume that the hatred anyone can feel comes from something, that caused it : personal problems, difficult past, etc...
      Unless it's someone that piss you off. Happens too. :B

    • I generally don't hate people. Hate is too strong a word for someone to deserve it unless they have done something physically or psychologically traumatic to hurt me or those I love in some way. One thing to know about me is that I love butterfly buns and my dad once took the last one off the plate that I had planned to eat. F***er ended up on my shitlist now :p
      There is always time for muffins.

    • I don't know why this thread has been brought back to the living but something I noticed about the OP is that he likes to put himself down. He also doesn't understand some of the things he is talking about and you could say "underestimates himself".

      The thing that bugged me the most when reading this again is that he said he had little to no talent. The question here is...what is talent to you? Making a rocket ship? Doing 18 backflips in a row? Making beautiful music? All of these are talents that individuals have and use to define themselves. The problem is that he contradicts himself by even typing on the keyboard and writing this odd thread. You can write, so wouldn't you class that as talent? You can spell and punctuate, which a lot of people on the internet and the real world cannot do.

      I don't want to sound harsh or anything like that but this fella really needs to love himself a little more. You can have any talent you want if you put your mind to it. Do you think that an musician in history instantly picked up a guitar and started doing ballads? Wow, he sure must have had talent. No, they practiced and showed passion, which is what you lack in yourself.

      Be enthusiastic about your life. Don't find reasons to hate it. You had an abusive childhood? Sorry to hear that but that is in the past now. You are your own man that can create his own destiny. The point of existance is to rise up over obstacles and prove those that get in your way that you are special. You are a you who has the capacity to do whatever they want.

      You make people laugh but you think that is not much? Ok, every comedian alive must wake up every morning and feel like a complete waste of space. 90% of entire post is just one big fat contradiction and to be honest you just need to grow up and take your life by the balls. Any problem has a solution, thus why it is called a problem in the first place.

      Go get therapy if you need it. The best way to sort out anger is to talk about, there are even free services in most towns that supply you with these people to talk to and sort out your issues. Yeah it might take days, months, years but the point is to beat it, don't let it beat you because then what is the point? Are you just going to slump around all day and making everyone else's day a miserable one just because you feel sorry for yourself?

      Don't give advice about things if you have a problem. Advice comes from people who have a solution, not from those that just want to live with the problem like a tumor.

      DO something about it.
      There is always time for muffins.