Jealousy.

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    • Noirproxy wrote:

      You should try and chat up both of them. Two sisters in one...stone? or something :p Ok, don't use a stone that is the bad way of getting a partner :p
      I Mean, I could. I've known her sister just as long and we are friends, but even her sister knew we were going to hang out.
      Thats another thing that somewhat made me mad.
      They are free to hang out and do their sisterly things but we did have the plans made since monday.
    • MrvonKals wrote:

      I'm not the type of person that is jealous, nor angry. I consider it one of my gifts to retain a certain calmth in my mind where others would rage indefinitly.
      But where others would be jealous I usually get myself down instead.
      Which is probably why I used to be rather depressed. But being in the deepest valley makes you see how good things you always considered usual can be.
      Does that make sense? o_0
      I completely agree with this for myself
    • LoveStrength wrote:

      I hate jealousy. It's a terrible feeling and it's something can cause so many problems between people. It was one of the main problems between my ex-boyfriend and myself. My group of friends are split about even of girls/boys, so when I hung out with one of the guys, I'd be accused - which is strange because I'm 100% against cheating, and would never do it. But it's a feeling most people can't control. I'm not proud but I've gotten jealous but I've learned that it's best to try to think before you speak - and its best to try to not let it discourage your feelings. It's the green-eyed monster I think a lot of people wish didn't exist.


      This is also our problem. I'm just like your ex-boyfriend. I am fine if they go out in group. But I get jealous when they do solo with another guy.:/ Another thing why I get jealous is when a guy likes him and she tolerates the guy. I don't know....I adjusted though, kinda.
    • I tend to get jealous easily, especially when it comes to someone I care deeply for. But it's not something I'm going to try and hide or change because it's a part of who I am and I'm okay with it. ^-^

      Jealousy

      -A sentiment which is born in love and which is produced by fear that the loved person prefers someone else.
    • Jealousy's weird. I think it's good though. I mean, sometimes it suuuucks and you're all like 'FAAAAHK, whyyyy?' but in a way, that shows you have something to care about and also have something to lose or aspire for. If you're jealous of other youtubers (like i'm jealous of freaking everyone inside) then it can make you try harder. If you're jealous of a guy hitting on the girl you like, it can make you man up and talk to her which is progress in the relationship you desire. If you're jealous of your partner hanging around with someone, it means you're in a situation where you've actually got a person you really like and if the feeling is returned, you might need to be more trustful (not always the case but mostly).

      tl;dr: IT CAN BE GOOD :P
    • Jealousy is probably the worst feeling I've felt in a long time, second only to rage. Luckily haven't felt jealousy that bad in over a year, but I hated it, but unfortunately I feel rage a lot more because whenever I'm sad, it just becomes anger. But what made me jealouse was being ditched completely for people who had more friends than I did by someone who I trusted with my life which was kind of harsh, but then I looked back and saw how naïve I was back then. We used to be like sisters, she's still a bitch to this very day with a false personality and no real friends.
      I began to understand that in my, and everyone elses life, there will be a time, whether it's long or short, that thing just will not go right and will become jealous of other people's seemingly vast success no matter how we try. This doesn't mean it will last forever.