Do you ever feel like nobody likes you?

Well, some days more than others, I feel like I'm just alone, I mean I still have people that like me but I just get lonely. That loneliness and isolation makes me feel unwanted or un-needed, which is similar to what you feel. I know I stated that so fricking much to people, but I don't think they honestly understand when I say I get my strength and confidence from friends and when I don't get that back, I wither up and stay isolated.

I guess part of that comes from my friends and I going our separate ways and going to different colleges, and I've been really close to the three of them. I guess that's part of where that comes from.

Most of the time, I do feel like no one likes me or wants to be around me. Even if I do have friends and they do tell me that my company is lovely to have, it still doesn't kill the feeling that I'm not needed or that I'm just annoying. Sometimes, it gets me hard during my days of depression to the point in where I isolate myself from everyone and I just do nothing but give myself more self hate to the point I break down. So yeah, it's rough for me to accept a little phrase like "you're not annoying" or "of course I like you around" it might be true, but I'll never accept it as the truth because I don't believe in it.

As many have mentioned, not being liked is part of growing up. You are going to realise that the world is filled with assholes. ALOT of assholes. This shouldn't bring you down though because the world is also filled with amazing, supportive people that can't wait to meet someone like you. Finding friends is kind of liking finding the person you are supposed to spend the rest of your life with. They are out there but you need to go out there and find them. It could be on the internet, in a bar, even in an after school/ work event.

That being said everyone here has my friendship. There are a lot of us that grew up feeling like a social outcast but within this forum we have been able to find each other and become friends. Come on guys and gals, group hug!

"Do you ever feel like nobody likes you?"

Oh, well, daily basis for me as I never really had any true friend or anything like that. But, meh, things are what they are...

I don't know if I have such. I find my self a quite positive person even though I am short and a weird person I am somehow always in the center of the group and usually literally (yes most of the times my friends surround me).
But sometimes I get the feeling like and which are really stupid: "What if they don't actually like me or what if my parents paid them to be my friends?!?!?" Believe it or not, I have thought of that I wouldn't say i am depressed right know but well I usually get really REALLY depressed when older family members get in bad condition with health or so. But even if all of the people hate you, think positive like PewDie does: "HATERS GONNA HATE!" It actually works!

Even as an optimistic person, there's always days where you feel down. As for not feeling liked, the only variable in such an occasion is you. If someone feels like nobody likes them, instead of feeling down, make the change you want to see!

Before I started dating Jenn, I was kinda socially awkward and didn't have many friends, if any really. I'd be afraid of meeting new people, wasn't confident in myself and just felt like I was a downer to anyone I was with, like they'd be better off without me. She kinda swung me out of that phase and took me into very sociable environments where I learned to talk to people. I was definitely out of my comfort zone, but if it wasn't for her, I wouldn't be the person I am today. Started working out at the gym, took care of myself more, and I'm a completely different person now!

One of the fun things about life is the unlimited possibilities a person has. It just takes the self-realization of what you can be before the fun starts

When you experience people fearing you due to your serious anger and violent outburst, you live a life of serious loneliness. I, for one, am a seriously deadly piece of work due to my anger and I do not deny it. It's due to so much depression and it feels like people never really wanted to help me. I drove away my girlfriend due to this and now I'm actually a hated person.


I may not sound like an angry person here but I come here to escape from the reality that is my life. Even optimism can't keep me running forever

You cannot please everyone they say so NEVER ever try to please someone because you will just disappoint yourself. Don't let yourself go down even if all the odds are against you.

(Play "against all odds" on the net. Off-topic)

Just be yourself and don't stray away. Maybe you don't have friends right now, but I bet someone willl come and notice you. Don't force yourself into someone though.

Also, just remember that someone has it worse-off then you, no matter what. Just sayin'

I take my hat off to whoever is living in a life far worse than this, it isn't easy getting through really bad times.

I always felt this way until 7th grade,and even then it didn't go away fully.
Just tell yourself this "To the world you my be one person,but to one person you may be the world."

Everyone was born to be unique, nobody was ever designed to be a copy. It's just some people choose to be that way.

There's ALWAYS going to be people that don't like you.
Even amongst your own friends and family.
I've realised this long ago and had an ever bigger realisation that it's something you can't really control fully (sure you can do things to make people like you more, but you can't garentee it).
As this is the case, I've learned to not give it any thought.

I've been better off since doing so.

ps - I think you're all awesome. Truly. /brofist

I'm always alone, i dissapoint my family almost everyday (im on the computer all the time, i dont care about other ppl's life and im really lazy at school), social skills? NO skillz at all, if im not talking about games, im not even talking
It hurts, i know the feeling, i cant even visit ppl i know in the internet (and i know for YEARS, like 2 or 3), and besides im 14 years old only, of course i have time to get friends, but for me (im really lazy at all), its a little harder, and i fail at everything (internet, real life, games, etc). But, whatever, i dont care sometimes, othertimes...yes
Besides, i cant promise if im gonna change, if im gonna be a good person, or if im gonna stop being an ass (my mother is paying me psicologist because im lazy at school and adict to the gaming), but i hope nobody behaves like me, it hurts every day

I just can't say anything, these comments have all the answers, help you might need peachvomit
And as long as you're on this site, I don't think it will happen ever again. There are always people here who'll aid you and every1 else!

I always feel that

In all my years so far, I've always been the person to do things for others and to be quite frank, I never really cared whether they hated me or not. My viewpoint during my times is that even when people hate you, it's no good trying to get yourself liked by them because it's their choice and trying to be liked only seems to exhaust you and it even just makes your life a heck of a lot worse.


However, in these past 2 almost 3 years, I never really thought that there would be a time where people hating me would make a real impact in my life. I know I digress, but we all have someone who likes us one moment, befriends us the next, becomes really close to us on another, and destroys us with hate at the last. I guess I'm trying to say it's not about whether people like you or hate you, it's whether you can be strong enough to ensure you do not get pulled down by people who hate you and if you are smart enough to make sure you get supported by people who like you.


I don't know if that makes any sense, but yeah. I'm not smart at all at this moment in time and I'm not strong either. I'm being pulled down by people who now hate me... Well, I'm sure I will get back on my feet some day

I actually left the site because I thought no on liked me xD and I am back so I guess yes and no and sometimes and maybe :3

(but tbh irl all tha taim on the internet i dont even know o.o)