PhaZe wrote:

Now this is just me, but..

I'd stay with her, and if they were to fool around, kick the guys ass then leave her.

On second thought:
She told YOU, that she likes HIM. What the fuck? I can understand why that led(lead?) to an argument, but really if it were me in that argument, it'd probably end up in a breakup. A girl does not simply tell her boyfriend she likes another guy That is, unless she's wanting a breakup or a threeway. And I would not go along for the threeway.

So yeah. Take these words as you wish, and best of luck to you.

Rune wrote:

PhaZe wrote:

Now this is just me, but..

I'd stay with her, and if they were to fool around, kick the guys ass then leave her.

On second thought:
She told YOU, that she likes HIM. What the fuck? I can understand why that led(lead?) to an argument, but really if it were me in that argument, it'd probably end up in a breakup. A girl does not simply tell her boyfriend she likes another guy That is, unless she's wanting a breakup or a threeway. And I would not go along for the threeway.

So yeah. Take these words as you wish, and best of luck to you.

Yeah I think I'd have probably rage quit the relationship too... infact I did once, found out she liked some other dude and same day I dumped her she was spotted kissing him round the corner from where I live, shows how much she cared

PhaZe wrote:

Rune wrote:

PhaZe wrote:

Now this is just me, but..

I'd stay with her, and if they were to fool around, kick the guys ass then leave her.

On second thought:
She told YOU, that she likes HIM. What the fuck? I can understand why that led(lead?) to an argument, but really if it were me in that argument, it'd probably end up in a breakup. A girl does not simply tell her boyfriend she likes another guy That is, unless she's wanting a breakup or a threeway. And I would not go along for the threeway.

So yeah. Take these words as you wish, and best of luck to you.

Yeah I think I'd have probably rage quit the relationship too... infact I did once, found out she liked some other dude and same day I dumped her she was spotted kissing him round the corner from where I live, shows how much she cared

Hmph, some class that girl had..

Rune wrote:

PhaZe wrote:

Rune wrote:

PhaZe wrote:

Now this is just me, but..

I'd stay with her, and if they were to fool around, kick the guys ass then leave her.

On second thought:
She told YOU, that she likes HIM. What the fuck? I can understand why that led(lead?) to an argument, but really if it were me in that argument, it'd probably end up in a breakup. A girl does not simply tell her boyfriend she likes another guy That is, unless she's wanting a breakup or a threeway. And I would not go along for the threeway.

So yeah. Take these words as you wish, and best of luck to you.

Yeah I think I'd have probably rage quit the relationship too... infact I did once, found out she liked some other dude and same day I dumped her she was spotted kissing him round the corner from where I live, shows how much she cared

Hmph, some class that girl had..

Haha, true dat... we did get back together but once you've already broken up once it's never EVER the same :\ there's always doubt and suspicion so think carefully about it, karlsanada... talk it over with a few of your friends and possibly a few of hers

karlsanada10 wrote:

Hey bros!

I've been with this girl for almost 2 yrs(few days before 2 yrs.), I love her more than I love myself or anybody else. I can give her everything. But...we had an arguement yesterday, then she confessed that she STILL likes the guy I really hate. Why? Because she already said it for the 4th time. Yes, 4th time, same guy. He has the advantage because they are studying on the same school and I'm not. Now she's angry because I said before she confessed that "You always command me, and you're getting angry if I'm too slow." or something like that, it's translated. So is this still worth trying. I'll talk to her later I guess.

We've been through a lot, but this guy is always the reason why we fight.-.-

CORMANO wrote:

karlsanada10 wrote:

Hey bros!

I've been with this girl for almost 2 yrs(few days before 2 yrs.), I love her more than I love myself or anybody else. I can give her everything. But...we had an arguement yesterday, then she confessed that she STILL likes the guy I really hate. Why? Because she already said it for the 4th time. Yes, 4th time, same guy. He has the advantage because they are studying on the same school and I'm not. Now she's angry because I said before she confessed that "You always command me, and you're getting angry if I'm too slow." or something like that, it's translated. So is this still worth trying. I'll talk to her later I guess.

We've been through a lot, but this guy is always the reason why we fight.-.-

I have been in this position before. In fact, my one was so bad, one of my ex dumped me near Valentines day and replaced me in a days worth with some other guy even though she said she wanted me and only me.


Well anyway, that's beside the point. Right now, from my point of view, certain girls become really confusing and convoluted. I'm not saying every girl is because I have a friend right now (we dated but we kinda had a disastrous end due to my anger issues) and we are still glued to each other everyday even though we had a seriously bad ending to our relationship. For me, if you truly love the girl my friend, I would let her go. As many have said, 'If you truly love someone, let them go. If they come back they are yours, if they don't... They were never yours to begin with'. This is how I would always show my love for someone. You should still be friends with her obviously, but you know... Just let her be. You don't want to choke her (not literally lolz, just a saying) by clinging onto her and obviously you don't want to continue the chains of argument with her. It's not a perfect suggestion, but it can at least convey whether she loves you or not.


Cormano thinks that this is about the only way you can do this. It's not about whether you love her my friend, it's about whether she loves you. If she keeps arguing over another guy, it's not worth fighting with her let alone for her. Yes I know it's true that it would be really hard for you to let go but time will heal you. To translate what she said which is "Matagal ko na syang gusto" she is saying literally "I've liked him for so long" (Good thing it was tagalog so I knew what it meant ASAP :D). To me, she is saying she still likes him, and no matter how long, she will always like him just like you said. If I were you, unless you see some light in her which shows she loves you back, I would just let her go. She comes back to you and realises what you mean to her, don't take her back straight away but build up slowly again.


This is Cormano's Wisdom for Love... I know it's not perfect, but I hope it helps.

Noirproxy wrote:

Here is a simple question. Why the hell are you worrying about someone who obviously doesn't share the same feelings for you? If my girlfriend had the nerve to tell me she liked another guy I would have dropped her off at their house personally so I could move on with my life. You have said that you love her and would give her anything, well she obviously wouldn't do the same back.

Something you are going to have to learn is that *drum roll* there are more women on this planet than men. This means there is always someone better and more deserving of you than this trout that you are with. How dare she tell you, the person who is taking the time to fufill her needs that there is someone out there better than YOU for her. Kick the girl out of your life and let her be with this douche while you find someone who will give you as much love and attention than she ever will.

The point of a relationship isn't to spend the rest of your life proving that you are better than someone else. A relationship is about two people who want each other for who they both are.

Sure you might be scared of being alone after the break up but hey we are brought into this world alone and we die alone. It is the people we share that time with inbetween that makes it all worth it. Don't waste your life trying to please someone who doesn't want to 100% please you back. Go out there and find that person you are destined to be with instead of worrying about this disgrace of a girlfriend.

Noirproxy wrote:

Here is a simple question. Why the hell are you worrying about someone who obviously doesn't share the same feelings for you? If my girlfriend had the nerve to tell me she liked another guy I would have dropped her off at their house personally so I could move on with my life. You have said that you love her and would give her anything, well she obviously wouldn't do the same back.

Something you are going to have to learn is that *drum roll* there are more women on this planet than men. This means there is always someone better and more deserving of you than this trout that you are with. How dare she tell you, the person who is taking the time to fufill her needs that there is someone out there better than YOU for her. Kick the girl out of your life and let her be with this douche while you find someone who will give you as much love and attention than she ever will.

The point of a relationship isn't to spend the rest of your life proving that you are better than someone else. A relationship is about two people who want each other for who they both are.

Sure you might be scared of being alone after the break up but hey we are brought into this world alone and we die alone. It is the people we share that time with inbetween that makes it all worth it. Don't waste your life trying to please someone who doesn't want to 100% please you back. Go out there and find that person you are destined to be with instead of worrying about this disgrace of a girlfriend.

Noirproxy wrote:

I wouldn't even let her stay in my life. If she comes round begging for me back, I would make sure she sees me with my new girlfriend who is loving me for me. What better than to turn the tables and see her squirm like the ungrateful person she is as she sees what it is like to have the person you like's feelings directed on someone else instead. Oh that would feel so good.

karlsanada10 wrote:

But I chose my gf over her.