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    • Kicked out...

      Hey guys, Tristan here... I'd like to discuss something pretty serious today. So, to start off with, I'm a smoker. I've been smoking for about 3 years now. Well, my parents don't buy me my cigarettes (though, they do smoke as well) so I usually have friends buy me packs (I'm 17). Well, my mother assumes I'm stealing her cigarettes now, with no proof, and no reason. She's threatening to kick me out of the house, and calls me a "liar, a thief and an asshole". I've already had to deal with enough shit through the past couple of months. I've had two really close friends pass away recently, and I've been really stressed out... I don't know... I guess I just kinda wanted to get it off my chest...

    • Wow, that is pretty serious... i dont actually smoke and support smoking, but my dad smokes so i guess i dont really mind since it is your choice. Anyway, im sure you tried explaining to her that you didnt steal them. Maybe you could ask your friends who buys you packs to explain to your mom that you didnt steal any of her cigarettes. Also condolences to you friends :c It'll be ok though c:
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    • Well, I'm only 12 and I don't know shit about smoking, but my sisters have been caught by my parents when they were smoking and taking drugs. Well, give it up for a while and don't join friends too often, and then after a while when they don't suspect anything just start doing it again but like in the streets and don't leave clues. My sisters are 18 and 21 but they have been smoking for like the last 3 years. This probs won't help, but I tried!
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    • I grew up around smoking and I don't support it, nor do I support drugs. I've seen the effects it has, I've lost many family members to smoking-related illnesses. Firstly, it's a nasty habit and I suggest quitting. I know you didn't come here to get a lecture, so that's all I'll really say. As far as getting kicked out, and being threatened... firstly - are you being upfront about it? You really aren't lying? I'm only asking because if you don't buy your own, she IS missing some, then chances are you are going to be accused because it's easy access and I'm sure your friends don't like having to constantly buy you packs. If you aren't being up front with her - than you should be.

      IF you aren't lying, then prove yourself innocent so you don't run into these issues. Chances are it could be she's just frustrated (cigarettes are expensive as hell), and she'll cool down after awhile because threats of being kicked out and actually getting kicked our are two different issues. If she hasn't kicked you out yet, she probably wont. Believe it or not, most parents don't want to resort to that.
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      Allow me to clarify. My mother literally doesn't give a shit if I smoke. I was gained negative reputation for this post due to an obvious misconception. Here's the deal, my mom verbally abuses me on a constant basis. She tells me that she hates me for no reason, or that I'm a fuck up and should just give up. She was actually one of the reasons I started smoking in the first place. I didn't steal shit from her, whenever she finds a reason to harass me, she does.

    • Raidenskingdom wrote:

      Hey guys, Tristan here... I'd like to discuss something pretty serious today. So, to start off with, I'm a smoker. I've been smoking for about 3 years now. Well, my parents don't buy me my cigarettes (though, they do smoke as well) so I usually have friends buy me packs (I'm 17). Well, my mother assumes I'm stealing her cigarettes now, with no proof, and no reason. She's threatening to kick me out of the house, and calls me a "liar, a thief and an asshole". I've already had to deal with enough shit through the past couple of months. I've had two really close friends pass away recently, and I've been really stressed out... I don't know... I guess I just kinda wanted to get it off my chest...
      Now, I'm not gonna tell you that you should or shouldn't smoke because that's your choice. But the problems with your Mom seems to be continuous problems. See if you can talk with her and if not because of irrational reasoning from your Mother and what-not. I suggest (Since you're 17.) Find a job. Be prepared to move out with a friend or by yourself. Do you have any close relatives that live nearby that you can obtain help from? I know it's hard to get insult from your parents, I've experienced that same pain where I even ran away from home. Take some time to relax and think about what your options are. Is the relationship fixable? Are the problems you have out of your control? Can you find a job and a place a live if something goes south? Begin to think those through because I've had friends who had to live on their own because of problems in the household. Keep me updated! I'd love to help any other way that I can.