Left Out...

icewolf13645 · May 29th 2013

Okay my 2 best friends are really leaving me out. They're always talking with each other and never try to explain things to me. And Stephanie, (who's one of them) gets SO pissed whenever I spend more than 5 minutes with Clare (that's the other one), without her. They always do things I don't like whenever they get the chance to, and I don't think they're doing it on purpose, but it really feels like it.
I don't want to hurt their feelings, but seriously I don't want to have a miserable life with NO friends.
I have other friends, but they're in other grades/other schools. And all of them that ARE in my grade/school aren't in my classes.
What should I do?

Deadslash · May 29th 2013

You should Sort things out with your friends and be Honest, if they are truly your friends they will accept your feelings

TheGamingHillbilly · May 29th 2013

I would have to agree here.
True friends. The kind you want to keep in life, are with you 100%. I would bring it up, and see what kind of friends you actually do have.

If they (or she) knows it bothers you, then everything should go smooth.

Kamen Rider Chaser · May 31st 2013

He has a point here . Real friends don't get pissed if you are with another friend lol

RebelNinja89 · May 31st 2013

Talk to the both of em' and sort things between you guys.

NuMetalWolf · May 31st 2013

It's not like that. Maybe they just need some time.
But if you really think they have a problem with you, then you should ask them. You'll never know it until you tried, right? :p

Yukari Yakumo · May 31st 2013

I agree with RebelNinja, talk to them and sort things out, maybe there is a problem between you and your friends, and they don't want you to know, and slowly "leaving" you.

HellYeah0912 · Sep 21st 2014

If you just tell them how you're feeling im sure it'll help. Good luck

MarWithC · Sep 23rd 2014

It's better to talk to them honestly with what you're feeling but make sure of "what you want to happen to your friendship."
I'm saying that you should be prepare yourself for the worst and remove your expectations because things might not go your way.

fluffeh.monster · May 21st 2015

Try talking to them and asking them why. At first, it'll be a bit awkward, but once it's fixed, it'll be alright.

Had an experience that EVERYONE of my friends left me. It wasn't the best, but I like it because I knew who my true friends are.

Bumble Bee · Jun 26th 2015

Non of them is your friend. I know its hard to accept but one can easily recognize a friend, because friends do not ask for things in return.
Especially women of every age have a habit of quickly forming social groups without having friends in them. That is no shame, actually a lot of people have no friends.
Try to find a girl that just is nice to you. Maybe she is a bit shy, or insecure, or less good looking than the girls you spend time with now, but at least she might actually become your friend after a year or so. Real friends are hard to come by, so do not give up searching for them.

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