I've noticed quite alot people asking for help on this forum because they are (heavily) being bullied. I'd like to share some tips with you as I've gone through 10 years of bullying, and I am just 16 years old. I've started being bullied when I was 6 for being different and weird. It started as just a light form of bullying, so I didn't bother. My dad died when I was 4 so we had to move quite alot. I changed to 5 different elementary schools. In all these schools I was bullied. I have had received the silence treatment, or being physically attacked. Eitherway, you are here for tips and not for my life story right? .
Tip #1: Try to talk to your bullies.
If your bullies are not ''heavily'' bullying you, like giving you just a silent treatment or mocking you about something, just tell them.
Tip #2: If your friends don't even try to stand up for you, dump them.
I've been in a situation where my friends didn't even WANT to get involved. These friends are not worth of being called friends. If they don't even TRY to stand up for you, just look for new ones.
Tip #3: Don't show your weak side to the bullies, this shall give them the temptation to bully you even further.
Tip #4: Stay cool about it.
Don't over-heat when they are bullying you. I once just laughed along, and they just went silent. Try it, their reactions are hilarious.
Tip #5: Talk with your parent(s) about it
Your parents might be able to solve this together with the parents of the bully. Most bullies fear their parents.
Tip #6: If you are being physically abused, call the police or notify the school.
If you are being abused at school, make sure to tell the school itself or just go to the police. If this does not work, you should make sure to stand up for yourself. Don't let them get you down.
Tip #7: You are awesome.
Don't let anyone make you feel different about that.
Are you dressing differently?
Fuck them, it's your life and you decide what happens. If you get anxious about them laughing, they ain't got no self confidence at all. You got the GUTS to dress differently, this makes you stronger than the bullies.
Perhaps you are homo/bi sexual?
Don't let them get you down. You are who you are and they can go fuck themselves. Just because you are able to show pride in your sexual orientation, they get jealous. You got the power man, show them what you got. You got the guts to show your true self.
Tip #8: Listen Viva la vida (coldplay) while walking proudly through the hallway
This sounds like a fucked up tip. But it works. Use any kind of other ''ego-boosting'' song while walking down the hallway. Lift your chin and don't give a fuck about them.
Tip #9: If you are closed out of the class, don't go to a teacher about it.
Seriously just don't. If you go to a teacher , the teach shall talk with the class. This shall make you seem desperate. You don't want that do you? You should show them your true self. Don't be silent, don't stay shyly in a corner. If there is a group project, volunteer to join someone who seems nice. Don't ever wait till the teach puts you somewhere.
- More tips are coming bros.
Please add your own tips here. ( NO EXPERIENCES JUST TIPS ) We can make a huge guide which can help peeps out here :D!!!
PS. You might disagree with the tips, these tips just helped me go through bullying.
Tip #1: Try to talk to your bullies.
If your bullies are not ''heavily'' bullying you, like giving you just a silent treatment or mocking you about something, just tell them.
Tip #2: If your friends don't even try to stand up for you, dump them.
I've been in a situation where my friends didn't even WANT to get involved. These friends are not worth of being called friends. If they don't even TRY to stand up for you, just look for new ones.
Tip #3: Don't show your weak side to the bullies, this shall give them the temptation to bully you even further.
Tip #4: Stay cool about it.
Don't over-heat when they are bullying you. I once just laughed along, and they just went silent. Try it, their reactions are hilarious.
Tip #5: Talk with your parent(s) about it
Your parents might be able to solve this together with the parents of the bully. Most bullies fear their parents.
Tip #6: If you are being physically abused, call the police or notify the school.
If you are being abused at school, make sure to tell the school itself or just go to the police. If this does not work, you should make sure to stand up for yourself. Don't let them get you down.
Tip #7: You are awesome.
Don't let anyone make you feel different about that.
Are you dressing differently?
Fuck them, it's your life and you decide what happens. If you get anxious about them laughing, they ain't got no self confidence at all. You got the GUTS to dress differently, this makes you stronger than the bullies.
Perhaps you are homo/bi sexual?
Don't let them get you down. You are who you are and they can go fuck themselves. Just because you are able to show pride in your sexual orientation, they get jealous. You got the power man, show them what you got. You got the guts to show your true self.
Tip #8: Listen Viva la vida (coldplay) while walking proudly through the hallway
This sounds like a fucked up tip. But it works. Use any kind of other ''ego-boosting'' song while walking down the hallway. Lift your chin and don't give a fuck about them.
Tip #9: If you are closed out of the class, don't go to a teacher about it.
Seriously just don't. If you go to a teacher , the teach shall talk with the class. This shall make you seem desperate. You don't want that do you? You should show them your true self. Don't be silent, don't stay shyly in a corner. If there is a group project, volunteer to join someone who seems nice. Don't ever wait till the teach puts you somewhere.
- More tips are coming bros.
Please add your own tips here. ( NO EXPERIENCES JUST TIPS ) We can make a huge guide which can help peeps out here :D!!!
PS. You might disagree with the tips, these tips just helped me go through bullying.
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