You have may to give them "the speech" This is where you tell them that it takes two people to fight, and %100 of all fights with regularly nice people starts when one person says something that they think is regular or unoffensive to say and the other person perceives it as mean. This is probably then when mean gets mean and the fight blows up. To stop a fight, you have to be the first one to be nice, which sometimes can be really hard to do. This seems like the friend that is apologizing seems…