Sometimes it's nice to remember that everyone else has insecurities too, no matter what it is. Knowing this means you know you're not alone in the world and there is always someone to talk to even if you don't think there is

For me, I have a few insecurities about my voice, as most people seem to think it's of a "feminine" nature. I know that my voice is too high for a guy most days. I don't need people telling me that every. single. day. The way I deal with it is by not talking and/or leave people who were once good friends back in the past.

Sounds bad, but they know about my condition and if they use it against me in an argument, then it's a low thing to do.

Hey you ever want to talk I would be willing to. Ok that may have come across a tiny bit creepy...

Isecurities. Everyone has because it's humanitarians. Don't worry. I think you can overcome them by believing more to you and be familiar with your insecurities.

There's many ways to overcome insecurities, and here are some of my shitty ways to do so.

I usually grow tired of the frustration and insecurity that usually stems from a problem or a person.
For example: self esteem issues, bothersome remarks, crushes, etc.
I will then confront the problem/person. How, you may ask.
Well, it varies, but it usually ends up in 2 different ways; change or acceptance.

Like for body image,
I could either change the way I look with a healthier lifestyle or picking up a make-up routine.
OR
Accept and love my body for what it is and embrace it.

If it concerns someone (crushes, remarks),
I would talk to that person about however I'm feeling and that I would like their opinion or [insert whatever I require their response or acknowledgement in].
OR
Accept the person for whoever she/he is and tell myself to not dwell on this aspect any longer.
For this case, I usually go with the talking, and I advise others to do the same. Because it's good to let the other person know, especially if you really care about them, vice versa.

Ultimately, you'll be fine, despite whatever your brain tells you.
Unless of course, the problem is already happening and it just echoes in your brain, then rip.
Regardless, we are human beings and you'll find your way to deal with them with experience and hiccups along the way. Do what you feel is best for yourself and hopefully best for others too.

All the best fam.

I usually try the whole Mind over matter aproach (in this case mind over mind) and remember myself that sometimes insecurities are exaggerations (that is just for some small situations when it hits strong I usually just poker face my way through the day)

On the bros out there I just wanna thank pewdie for helping me fight my cancer....I love you pewdie