Reciprocal Liking - Has this ever happened to you?

LilyWhite · Dec 11th 2014, 3:27pm

Reciprocal Liking is basically when you like someone because they told you they like you or act like they like you or you have been told by someone else that they like you.
So, have any of you experienced reciprocal liking? I'd really like to hear your stories and know whether or not this is a common thing :3
Feel like I've used the word like too much in this post. Like, seriously :V

Mystery · Dec 11th 2014, 4:30pm

wat, my brain asploded

I've experienced it multiple times, mostly because people find me an interesting person to talk to~ I probably wouldn't have as many friends on the forums if it didn't happen. And, even better, people wouldn't like me if I didn't have such a huge interest in other people.

LilyWhite · Dec 11th 2014, 4:48pm

I apoligize for exploding your brain
Also, you misunderstand "like", my friend

Mystery · Dec 11th 2014, 5:45pm

ffffff

well, wikipedia gave me nothing, sooooo

what kind of liking is it?

LilyWhite · Dec 11th 2014, 5:52pm

Gosh darn it wikipedia, can't you do anything right?

I mean have you ever started to have feelings for someone/ found them more appealing because they had a crush on you?

Mystery · Dec 11th 2014, 5:55pm

Uh, lemme see...

*noh*

LilyWhite · Dec 11th 2014, 6:10pm

Has happened to me, but certainly not with every person who has expressed an interest in me, there has to be a compatible personality thing going on too :V

I think partially because I don't even consider relationships at all until that factor comes into play

Luna575 · Dec 14th 2014, 3:56pm

Yes I have

~TehFluffQueen~ · Dec 16th 2014, 8:08pm

Well,I don't know if this falls into the category buuut I known this guy I had considered a best friend for 4 and a half years,and I was insanely in love with him.We"dated".He would tell me how beautiful and smart I am,how much he missed me,how much he wished he could kiss me,and in turn I would tell him I love him and that the only person I could ever see myself living life with was him.But he would tell me we weren't dating and he would tell me who he was with and who he had slept with like a few days later and then I'd get mad and he'd ask me this "Why are you always so mad when I tell you this,huh?? Why are you even that jealous?"...It was the most emotionally numbing,painful relationship I'd ever been in.I still have yet to find a guy who actually will tell me he loves me,be faithful, and mean what he says

kakipii · Dec 16th 2014, 8:25pm

Yep! I never really noticed the guy (he was more of a friend lol) till he told me he liked me. The relationship turned sour real fast though, with all the emotional manipulation... But yeah, I guess it's pretty common.

~TehFluffQueen~ · Dec 16th 2014, 8:31pm

It happens to the best of us I guess,hehe ^^"'' But after that relationship,it had literally affected every single relationship I've had,romantic or platonic.I'm getting better at getting over it,I'm a little ways away from the "yay,I've finally moved on stage!",I just need someone to help me forget is all

LilyWhite · Dec 17th 2014, 3:11am

@ClockWorkMaidenGear >YOU GO GIRL! You'll find someone and until you do, I suggest listening to Beyoncé's "Single Ladies" x3

~TehFluffQueen~ · Dec 17th 2014, 5:54am

Hehe thanks! And you're right.If he did like it,he woulduh put a rang it!! X'D

secret agent imp · Jan 26th 2015, 9:50pm

um....>.> am i the only guy here? well... does it count if i met a girl here in this website?(flub is right this is turning into a dating website) i met with her and clicked right away, she had a crazy personality and i liked that, i always had fun talking to her and it slowly grew into more..... so i finally got my shit toghether and told her my feelings.... and to my surprise she liked me a lot as well : )

LilyWhite · Jan 27th 2015, 6:03am

there are too many couples on this site xD

secret agent imp · Jan 27th 2015, 7:32am

so true... it actually weird when you think about it

Hellsmasquerade · Feb 13th 2015, 9:26am

Yeah actually I have. I currently feel that way. But it is stupid because we live three house apart and he wants physical relationship and we can't have that so it makes it really difficult.

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